This photo I took for a friend as I was sitting in the pantry … where Peanut found me lol
Why was I sitting in the pantry? Because I was frustrated. I was done. I was hiding out. I’d had enough.
I kept trying to put rules, boundaries, guidelines and get others to act differently and treat me differently.
The buzz word around here was boundaries….
Respect.
(Which there’s absolutely a place for that)
But if you stop pushing and start surrendering you will actually get farther.
When you sink into forgiveness you remove the others need to change because you’ve changed for the both of you.
I’ll continue to go back to the process of forgiveness over and over because it’s the space of change.
It’s the space of miracles
Then the boundaries automatically just happen.
They fall into place because you’ve changed, your energy, your thoughts, you’ve shifted to a place that automatically upholds your new beliefs and that is what gets respected.