Healing is the responsibility of the victim

Healing is the responsibility of the victim

If you are wounded and hurting the healing is yours to pursue. This might make you upset- tossing the blame back onto the antagonizer Or you might agree, understanding that only the one with the wound can heal it. We seem to think of the victim as innocent (and they...
Honouring yourself …

Honouring yourself …

Two weeks ago today this little babe came into this world. You may have noticed I’ve been very quiet on here lately. I mentioned back in the fall as well, how tiring the pregnancy was and how much extra space I needed to take for myself to rest. The pregnancy was...
I came out to the pasture…

I came out to the pasture…

It’s a beautiful day out today. (Kinda, sunny +6) And I have a full hour of ‘me’ time. So I came out to the pasture. I just completed the last class wrap up session for the Advanced Mediumship course I’ve been taking this past year. I’m now officially on maternity...
Gentle leadership

Gentle leadership

I’ve been thinking about, talking about, learning about leadership for awhile now. And it comes up in our lives in many forms. As a parent. As a pet owner. As a worker with group responsibility. As a community volunteer. As a business owner. And Soooo many other ways....