Here’s the thing…. about jealousy

I’m not overly a jealous person. I get envious of somethings but then I work twice as hard to create that in my life without attacking the other person or people who already has it.

So I don’t entirely understand jealousy.

But here’s the thing.

I don’t know what your even jealous of lol.

My hard work? My years of experience to gain a minute amount of knowledge? My years and years of struggle? My tears? My heart break? All of this came a long with every single cheer of success.

It’s not always sunshine and roses- in fact I couldn’t even get my roses to live.

I actually feel like I have been attacked more for my HAPPINESS than anything, by unhappy people.

You know how I get THIS happy?

(#1) I DONT JUDGE.

I don’t judge myself.

IM NOT PERFECT and I don’t expect myself to be. I fix any mistakes I find and move on. Mistakes are just experience.

And that leads to not judging others. I give them grace and compassion and forgiveness.

I mean we are all human. We all have some judgements. I’m no Buddha lol but I try my hardest.

And it starts with myself. The less I judge myself (and others) the more I can love and be happy.

(#2) I’m AUTHENTIC

I laugh, I cry, I dance, I sing, I scream, I yell…

I’m just me. I can’t not be. If I try to not be me… and I’ve tried… I just get sick. Because my body needs to move and EXPRESS itself.

Emotions are not bad. They need to move. Not stay stuck. You can not HIDE the bad emotions. That makes you unhappy!!!! And stays stuck in your body.

The ppl I find that try to hide their emotions and fake them are the ones TRYING to be perfect…. And what did we just say about that ….

(#3) I HEAL

This one is the newest one. growing up I was half happy and content, half angry and frustrated.

I didn’t want to be angry. So I healed it. I’m still healing. I’ll always use these tools of healing to help me move back to my happiness, love and joy.

… I feel like there’s more but these are my main three.

Ok one extra … but I think it kinda fits with these first three.

(#4) I GIVE MYSELF GRACE.

Along with not judging, being authentic and healing I give myself that little bit of extra grace and forgiveness.

I’m always doing the best I can. How can I not be? So I find forgiveness in that and move on with life.…

I’ve just done a lot of cord cutting from unhappy, jealous, toxic people in my life. And even still. All I can do is love them.

So the next time you find yourself feeling a little bit jealous try sending some love to yourself and the other. Try some of the above suggestions and if you need help with any of these give me a call and I can help you with a divinely guided session.