1. I remember they are just a human like me.
Humans don’t always know better. Humans don’t always do better. Humans have feelings. Humans have limiting belief systems. A narcissist is only a human using their egoic brain.
2. Humans deserve love and forgiveness. This is the part that’s healing for us. It lets us, and them, off the hook. It removes any judgements that we have from their life. It’s a huge release. It’s healing and it shows the universe what we will and won’t tolerate- nothing less than love.
3. I have boundaries (which get stronger all the time with each experience) I walk away, or I do what’s best for me. I have places of compassion and places where I choose differently again. I choose the best experiences for me and I show up to them the best I can. I rearrange relationships- or the healing and forgiveness process does this for me. We grow apart. We move on gracefully from the situation. And life changes as we grow and change