Boundaries = Respect
Something I’ve come to understand.
And something that is very new to me.
But let me explain. Authentic boundaries are not walls of fear, or anger, or defense.
They are not caused by frustration or hate or jealousy.
Not at all.
Authentic boundaries are something we hold inside of us energetically.
By standing in our power.
By healing our fear, our frustration. We can see something from a completely new perspective and then set an authentic boundary around how we want to hold it in our lives.
There’s a lot of talk these days about getting rid of the negative people in our lives.
Those people are only there to teach us a lesson.
How to hold our boundaries, heal our pain, remove our triggers and gain the strength, courage and respect we deserve.
If you just go running from every negative impact on your life, you’ll never quit running until you turn around and face what is actually causing it in the first place.
You, your trigger, and your emotional scarring.
Once you heal that I PROMISE they will no longer be a negative impact on your life.
I’m not saying you can’t leave physical, emotions, or abusive relationships… but I promise the scarring and the pain won’t go away until you heal it inside of you.
Healing this pain takes courage. It takes patience. It takes faith. And it takes willingness to find the other side of the wound.
But I promise you will thank me when you find it.
Because that inner strength, that inner peace, That feeling of finding your true self is something you can never undo.
And undoing the pain is the only way out …