Lately I’ve been seeing posts like “everything in life is hard, choose your hard”

Or I’ve had conversations where the reply was “welcome to life…its hard, it’s tiring”

I do not subscribe to this belief system.

Sometimes life can be hard, it can get tiring.

But know that it doesn’t always have to be this way.

Life should be happiness, it should be joy, it should be full of love and precious little ‘take your breath away’ moments.

It should be full of peace and grace.

If it’s not, perhaps you need to take a look at how your doing life.

I am tired. And I taking a break, I am asking for help so I can rest and bring my life back up.

I’m going to bring the joy back,

I’m going to stock back up on the feeling of love,

I’m going to find those peaceful moments that fill my soul.

Sometimes life can be hard, pieces of life can really get us down. But these places are not permanent- they don’t have to be… that’s up to you.

You can continue to hold onto the darkness for the rest of your life, or you can let it go.

The other side of darkness is lightness.

That’s the place where we find our peace, our peace with life, with ourselves…

Sometimes it seems easier to hold on, or we don’t know how to find the lightness, but it’s worth letting go… every single time.