Late night musings…
Boundaries have been an ongoing topic for me these last few years. And YES I’m all for boundaries….
BUT there’s a big difference between a boundary and a projection… yet I think people are getting them mixed up 
If you are ‘setting a boundary’ because you are triggered or angry or upset or resentful or whatever the upset emotion is… you are projecting your emotions onto others instead of looking inside of yourself to see where that emotion came from and dealing with your inner self and inner wounds.
But if you are being loving to yourself and loving to the other and just setting a boundary around your choices for you then that’s a healthy boundary.
That’s kindness, that’s compassion, that’s forgiveness, that’s empathy, that’s grace… that’s where boundaries should come from.
Let’s bring back love, and caring for one another rather than projecting onto each other and sending out hatred and resentment and call it setting boundaries. Please 
