Now I’m not a therapist, but I’ve also done SO much learning and had so many experiences around childhood healing and ancestral healing and just spiritual healing in all capacities…. I’ve seen and felt the ‘light’ the ‘love’ the goodness that is possible in fixing relationships instead of just pointing fingers.
Ive felt forgiveness and rebuilt trust and went from a not happy, not good situation to ones that were very respectful and kind.
There’s SO much talk out there about boundaries and cutting people out of your life and how toxic people really are… every little thing is scrutinized.
But I want to point this out…
10% of people are ACTUALLY toxic. Actually unchangably not healthy to be around.
(And I know I’m optimistic but I still actually believe these 10% are still just people too who need to be loved- they just have to want to do their part)
That makes 90% of relationships GOOD. Not perfect. But GOOD. Maybe messed up n suffering a bit… but still GOOD relationships that with a bit of love and kindness and respect and forgiveness and acceptance, CAN be very happy relationships.
This doesn’t usually happen by pointing your finger at others, or even asking them to change, ever… this is an inside job that I think many more of us need to learn and do first.
Please, Let us relearn to forgive, to accept, to heal, to love, to respect and trust others.
Let us heal ourselves first and foremost. It’s time to stop judging others and move forward with peace in our hearts instead of all this judgement, anger and resentment.
