We are told we can’t change other people – but that’s a lie.

We SHOULD NOT go around trying to change other people. That’s ego, that’s manipulating, that’s not what this is about.

But we do influence people, we impact their lives, we help heal, shift and love them. We teach them, we grow with them…

We can also hurt them, trigger them, and negatively impact them. Sometimes through our hurts- sometimes unintentionally we push their buttons.

But relationships can change.

People can change.

We can change ourselves.

We can change others.

Others can change us.

We can grow together or apart.

We can meet new people, or let others go. Both of which impact our lives. Both of our lives.

So, yes, we can change people.

And that’s a good thing